Okii bloggers, I have come up with a list that might help some of you guys realize why you are not getting the girl, why she broke up with you, or why your girlfriend is possibly upset or annoyed by you. Okii so one of the things girls hate the most in a guy is:
1. All they want is sex- no girl wants a man who doesn't appreciate her for who she is, or a guy that only lusts her. (unless if the girl just wants you for sex, then yes go ahead just protect yourself, and don't kiss and tell.)
2.They try to make you jealous- any girl who has a boyfriend or is talking to a guy she might be interested in, absolutely hates a guy that tries to make her jealous.
3. They bring up the past or their ex-girlfriend- Come on you guys! No one likes to hear about your past ex's. You wouldn't like it if your girlfriend or girl you liked talked about their ex-boyfriends, so please, don't bring your's up. It makes you look like you are still not over them!
4. They act perverted or flirt/joke with other girls in your face!-
NO -FUCKING-BODY wants to hear you talk like that to another FEMALE!!!!!!! Specially if the person listening to you is your girlfriend! (Just don't do it in her face, at the store, behind her back, anywhere, not even in your dreams!) That is rude, and if she were to do that, I am 100% sure you would flip the fuck out and feel a tiny piece of your heart break. It not only makes her feel insecure, but it makes her sad, and when you see her looking a little gloomy and ask her why (if she's polite) she'll say, "There's nothing wrong." and she'll give you a weak smile. If that's the case apologize and don't you dare talk to that whore again! If you do it cause you think you can get away with it, you're a douchebag and you don't deserve her.
5. You're not in the best mood and they assume you're on your period- This is really annoying for girls when we get upset or sad and your boyfriend or soon- to- be boyfriend asks, "Hey are you on your period or something?" Half of the time, a girl is not on their period and they just might need to talk things through or need some alone time. It's annoying because PMS (premenstrual symptom) is just something invented by men to make women look crazy.
6.They Kiss and Tell/Brag (Aka: They tell their friends all about what goes on with their girlfriend.)-It is terrible if you go to your friends after a hot steamy makeout with your girlfriend and pour all the details out. No one likes to make "intimate moments" with the one you love public. It would be a bit embarrassing if your girlfriend walks down the hall and they whistle at her after you told them she gave you a hand-job or some other intimate secret, or an exaggerated truth. You wouldn't like it if she told all her friends everything that happens between you and her; I mean she could tell them about your reaction to something intimate. Just don't lie about things you assume your girlfriend would do or you think she likes.
7.They act a certain way with you and are a whole different person with their friends-This is really annoying when both guys and girls do this. You're relationship is based on liking someone for who they are and not for who you or they pretend to be. If you're super sweet with your girlfriend and your nasty as hell promiscuous with your friends and she doesn't know that side of you, you're screwed and should unveil that side of yours and see whether she likes it or not. Just be yourself and don't pretend a thing.
8.They burp and spit on the floor- Okii guys, I know no guy can resist burping or spitting on the floor; but please don't do it in your girlfriends face! It's nasty to us girls.
9.They lie to you-Please don't lie to your girlfriend about anything. Girls take things very seriously, unlike you guys that think the world is your stage and you're all Carrot Top. Even if you're joking around, girls get hurt easily and unless if you tell them you're joking; they WILL take it for reals. So don't makeup things and lie to them about who you are with, and what you are doing. I mean you can lie if you're at the store with your mom in Victoria's Secret and it's embarrassing for you, then yes a little white lie won't hurt. But if you lie to them about having broken up with a chick, someone dying, or about cheating on them when you are then just be honest. Lying is the biggest betrayal a girl could suffer; asides from insecurity.
10.When you reply a one word text-Okii when a girl or your girlfriend send you a long meaningful text and you reply with okay,yeah, and lol; it honestly pisses girls off. We expect you to say something deep and from your heart back.
11.When they smell like someone else-Okii girls get jealous very easily. Not because they want to be like anyone else, but because we technically see any other female as a threat. Some girls are very slutty and don't care if you have a girlfriend; they will persist until you either give in or tell them to piss off. Even if your friend you see as a sister hugs you and leaves you smelling like her, your girlfriend will get pissed and think you were hugging someone else because you like them.
12.When they talk to someone else more than you-Okii maybe you don't talk to that person 24/7 or even for 4 hours, but if your girlfriend is there and you're talking to someone else more than you are to her; she will get jealous.
13.When they stare at other chicks with bigger boobs and a bigger butt, and she's wearing a crap-load of makeup-This makes any woman regardless of how beautiful they are feel insecure, jealous, depressed, and pathetic. It makes woman think you are into artificial things and they might start or try to imitate these things. You have to embrace all the thing YOUR woman has, whether it be a cute butt, grope-able boobs,a nice tight pussy, a beautiful face, an adorable laugh, or the most important thing: HER PERSONALITY.
14. When they say they love you after a uber intense makeout-
Many guys won't see anything wrong with this , but you might think that by saying this you'll strengthen a tie, but in fact you install a bit of paranoia in your girlfriend. Just remind her that you don't love her for just her kisses, but for who she is, and you'll be fine. (Unless if you just like her kisses, then be honest with her.)
15.They act aggressive with you/or controlling-Many girls hate it when guys turn aggressive or want things their way only. A lot of the times girls don't say anything, but please guys, don't be like that.
Well that's it, I only include a few, but I hope you boys will get a clue on what girls hate about guys.
